Now you’re learning! Understanding how hard it is to get right is a critical part of the learning process.
Something to understand, whenever possible orient the thick piece below the thin piece. That way you aren’t fighting gravity with the weld pool falling down. It’s easier to whip up to the thin side, then drop back to thick, linger, then move forward, whip up, drop down, linger, move, etc…Hard as in there's a very fine line between getting it to weld, and blowing big holes into it. Unlike TIG you can't really see where the metal's gone (because the slag covers everything).
What I've found works best so far is weld alongside the thin material, and every so often (but not too often), weave into the thin material. Then chip the slag off, and see if it welded, if it did not then another pass and hopefully you do not blow holes into it.
If you must weld thick above thin, it’s critical you point the rod at the thick piece. Don’t point into the joint. Gravity and fluidity will draw the weld pool down, and when you drop and whip up, you should have enough weld left behind to fill the root and the toe. This is the really hard part of stick welding; seeing through the slag and understanding what the puddle is doing.
And you’re right, TIG is much easier to weld when two surface are very different thicknesses. But master this with Stick, and your TIG welds get so much better so much faster. And it’s cheaper because no gas… Skip welding stainless altogether until you’ve got your Stick game on mild steel down. Just pad beads in flat position. Then overlap them. Then work on a fillet or T joint with Stick. Keep at it, 1 month down, only 80 more to go